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Stop Saying "They Can't"


In the classroom, the phrase "they can't," marks a limiting belief in students' abilities and potential. Educators sometimes fall into the trap of labeling students with limitations rather than possibilities. But what drives this tendency, and more importantly, what are the ramifications for both students and educators?


Why Do Educators Say "They Can't"?

The inclination to use the phrase "they can't" stems from a variety of reasons. Some teachers may genuinely believe that certain students lack the capacity to grasp certain concepts or skills. Others might feel overwhelmed by the pressures of standardized testing and curriculum demands, feeling compelled to prioritize student outcomes over individual student growth. I like to think of this as focusing on the product over the process. In some cases, it's a matter of convenience or frustration, where teachers default to "can't" rather than exploring alternative strategies a student may need to be successful. And sometimes it's a lack of knowledge on the teacher's part. Using the phrase "they can't" is sometimes easier to own than acknowledging it's actually a matter of "I can't" or "I don't know."


The Impact of "They Can't" on Students

The consequences of this negative language are profound and far-reaching. When a teacher asserts "they can't," it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy for students. It chips away at their confidence, instilling doubt in their abilities and limiting their belief in themselves as learners. Instead of viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, students internalize a fixed mindset, believing that their capabilities are predetermined and permanent.


"They can't" erodes the foundation of trust and respect in teacher-student relationships. Students who consistently hear this, or just know their teacher feels this way about them, may develop resentment towards educators and learning. They may feel misunderstood and undervalued. Conversely, teachers unknowingly distance themselves from their students, missing out on the chance to cultivate a supportive and empowering learning environment.


The impact on students' self-perception as learners cannot be overstated. When confronted with obstacles, they are more likely to disengage or give up prematurely, convinced that their efforts are for nothing. This defeatist attitude not only stifles academic progress but also extends into other areas of their lives, hindering their capacity to navigate challenges and pursue their passions with conviction.


The Need for a Paradigm Shift

Changing this mindset about students is not a just a pedagogical nicety but it is imperative to the confidence and success of the students we serve. Every child deserves to be seen as a diverse individual brimming with potential, regardless of their background or perceived limitations. By reframing "they can't" as "how can they," educators can unlock a world of possibilities for their students. This shift fosters a culture of inclusivity, resilience, and lifelong learning.


The success of all learners hinges on the collective effort to dismantle the barriers of self-doubt and complacency. Teachers must embrace their role as facilitators of growth, advocating for personalized approaches that honor each student's unique strengths and challenges. By celebrating progress and nurturing a growth mindset, educators can empower students to meet or even exceed expectations, transcend limitations, and create their own paths to success.


The Power of "Can"

Using the phrase "they can't" says more about the teacher's beliefs as educator than it does about the student's ability. The power of "can" extends beyond the walls of the classroom. "I can" serves as the inspiration of hope and possibility for all students. As educators and advocates, we must replace "they can't" with "they can." This imperative mindset shift has the potential to change lives and reshape the landscape of education for the better.

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